How to open up to women online that I am divorced and a father of two?

I've been divorced not too long and have two kids with me. It's been a couple of years since then but I feel like I'm ready to get back into the game and find someone.?I don't think I have what it takes to find someone in person. I know that my age is beyond what women would find attractive. But a few of my friends convinced me to try online dating and while I was searching for some trusted and decent dating sites, I came across AFA?I'm honestly rusty with everything. I absolutely don't know what to do and how to approach a woman online. I feel as though there are many key points I should mention in my personal information page, but I'm lost.?If I do match with a woman from abroad, I'm clueless as to how I can make a connection. How can I tell her about my past marriage and the fact that I'm a father of two children? I hear that younger women don't find these things attractive. I'm nervous at the thought of never finding the right woman.?I can easily say that having nobody to love you after a tough divorce is hard to deal with. I would like to open my doors again to love and maybe find a woman who's truly the one for me. ?It's been difficult these past few years of being a single father and with my age advancing. I try to keep an open mind and to stay positive. I just really need some help with all this. Any kind of advice and some tips will greatly boost my confidence. Thank you so much in advance!
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All you can do is be honest. A lot of women find it perfectly fine that a guy has kids, especially if he's responsible and able to support them. Take a look at a lot of women's dating profiles, it seems the vast majority are divorced or single mothers now looking to get their lives in order with someone they can be with for the long haul. One thing you don't want to do is be evasive. If you get close to someone you're not going to win any points when they ultimately learn the truth. There are a lot of women out there, so the best you can do is be open, honest and wait to make a connection. I'm not saying it's going to be easy, but it's the best policy. As far as finding someone abroad, all I can say is that if you don't know how to connect with them, you might as well narrow your search criteria to omit anyone who's not within reasonable traveling distance.
Be the best you can be, be open, approachable and patient. Best of luck!

Unfortunately I think you are talking to a spammer :/ 90 percent of what gets posted on this board now is about mail order brides and dating web sites. I think this is basically an ad for "AFA" whatever that is, I keep seeing that happen to appear in the middle of these posts!!

 

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