Short boyfriend who is lighter than me?

I just got with a really nice boy and we are really close - in terms of personality.
It feels really awkward sometimes because he is quite a lot shorter than me (i'm about 5''8 he is about 5''3) , and he can't lift me up because I'm quite heavy (i'm not fat i'm tall and big boned whereas he isn't) and it really gets to me.
He can't really hug me or kiss me because he can't reach and he can't give me piggy backs etc like my other friends with their boyfriends.
we just kind of walk behind while they are ahead, with the boys' arms wrapped around the girls' shoulders.
I'm not sure what to do, but i don't want to break up with him.

If you don't want to break up with him then don't! You can either act like you don't notice or you can make a joke out of it if he's ok with that. Kind of like "we'll joke about it openly so other people don't behind our backs." This is an area where I will admit to being shallow, this would be a problem for me to get over. But if you want to be with him which you say you do, it's worth getting past it. JMO good luck!!

 

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