I tried reporting it on Thursday, but the police officer told me that it wasn't rape, that it was consensual, and he wouldn't even file a report. He said he'd talk to him and tell him not to harass me online, but he didn't do anything about the rape. Chandler gets to walk around like he did nothing wrong while I'm traumatized by it.
I'm so sorry you're going through this. The law on consent is so screwed up, and rape culture definitely makes women feel like it wasn't rape or they asked for it. Less than 2% of rapists actually ever go to jail. Try to avoid this person if possible, but talk to your girlfriends online or in real life about it, it should help you cope a little better.?
I'm really sorry about that. It's absolutely disgusting that all he gets is a slap on the wrist and you get this. If I were you, I'd try to report it again, but I'd ask for a female officer.