Boyfriend addicted to porn film - need advice

How to deal with a boyfriend who is addicted to sex? We have been in a relationship for the past 3 years and it's been nearly 1 year since I moved into his place. Everything was going fine but recently he is not happy with me in bed. We end up fighting and it pisses me off. Is he not interested in me anymore? A few days back I happened to open his laptop and I was shocked to learn he is watching porn films online. I confront him and he said he feels happy while watching it. I don't know how to handle this situation. I'm thinking of giving him a second chance. I told him that if he continues watching it then it's an end of our relationship. So he asked me to help him. He said he is addicted to porn films and he is not able to stop it. How about taking him to an addiction centre in Toronto for treating sex addiction? I'm not sure about the procedure and don't know if this will help him? Any suggestions are highly appreciated!! ??

Men like looking at porn even when they are madly in love with you and love having sex with you a lot.

If you end up fighting and pissed off, check the relationship. Do you still love him? Does he still love you? Are there other issues besides sex?

Communication can only happen when you're both not angry. Once one person becomes angry, stop, retreat, wait, then when calm you can resume.

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May I ask what you think the root of the problem is? If not that has to be figured out as most addictions do have a root. Encourage him to go to therapy and try sticking it out and showing him you want to have a healthy sexual relationship...it worked for me. Good luck.

 

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